ATTIRE
Formal, blackout wedding.
For Men:
Black suit / white button down shirt.
Black suit / black button down shirt.
Black ties or bow ties or no ties (a little tease of chest welcome).
For Women:
Black formal dress. Black black. Not black with (insert any other color here) lace or pattern etc; BLACK. Sexy black. Black sequins - yes. Black lace - also yes. BLAAAACK.
Formal means down to your ankles, thank youuuuuu. (Sexy slits are very welcome!)